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[quote=Anonymous]Hang in there, OP. Keep going to therapy, maybe join a support group. I think you only consider telling family if the two of you have already filed for divorce. It's natural to want to see him hurt the way he hurt you. I think your wanting to shame him is not going to have the effect you'd want. And it's better to look inside yourself, because this is more about you feeling shame about the situation, and wanting to get rid of your feelings of shame by pushing it on him. A good therapist will help you release shame in a healthy way, because shame is such a toxic thing. And this will take time and effort to heal and move on from. Someone else posted that the first two years were the worst, and that was my experience, too. [/quote]
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