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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]Op here. Good question. I don't know why. I was thinking maybe his reaching out was a sign he wanted to reconcile, and [b]I still do love him so much[/b]. I'm starting to come to terms with this. It isn't what I want, but I don't know this man and [b]I don't like this man. I wouldn't have married this man.[/b] I'm going to go through our family vacation and then let him go. Still trying to figure out what to say to my boys. Don't want to put them in the middle of things, but also don't want them to think their fathers actions are ok. [/quote] You love him, you don't like him and wouldn't have married him. You are planning to separate, you have sex with him. I think you REALLY need to get to some individual counseling STAT. You are full of conflict on this. You need someone to talk you through what you are thinking and feeling so you can be whole and make decisions from a settled place so you do what's right for yourself and your kids. I would take your kids on the vacation by yourself if I were you. [/quote]
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