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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][b]My husband loves and wants to spend time with our child for his own sake, not just because he is married to me. Seeing a loving fatherly relationship, I would accept no less.[/b] OP, you don't have to either. You don't know how he would be if you have kids, but you do have one data point that isn't comforting, and you haven't been dating for that long.

I also find it very hard to believe that a man who has only visited his daughter ONCE a) sends $3500 a month and b) can make her believe that he'd be there for her if she needed him when he's not there any other time. But that's beside the point.[/quote]

Give me a break.  Is your husband a scared 21 year old?[/quote]

No but neither is OP's boyfriend at this point. She says he was involved until they moved...but has only visited once in 8 or 9 years, despite making what sounds like a high enough income that the flight wouldn't break him. THAT is what I'm judging, not that he didn't marry the ex at 21 or something. You love your kid, you find ways to see your kid, period.[/quote]

Also want to add that dropping out of kid's life after getting to know them for a couple years is even harder to understand than not being involved with an infant. You KNOW them by then, and they know you.[/quote]

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