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[quote=Anonymous]OP, it sounds like you have a wonderful, close, loving family and you are a kind, warm sister and daughter.    I don't understand why you all are berating OP for loving to spend time with her family.

I do think your boyfriend isn't interested in joining your family.   You will eventually have to give up one or the other.
If you give up your family, you will deny who you are.  His resistance will only grow over time, and you will attend every event alone.   He will get angry when your sister comes to help with the newborn, etc.

Not every man is going to want to enter your situation, but there are some out there who would be happy to.

My husband's mother is not maternal, and his father lives alone hates to travel to see us.   He is an only child, and loves spending time with my affecfionate, close family.   We see my parents for dinner 1-2 days week on some weeks, and on some weeks not at all.   My husband gets love from my mom that his own mother is not capable of.   Frankly, it's been a healing relationship for him.   Our children benefit from spending a lot of time with grandparents how cherish them.

There are men out there longing for a close, warm family.   If and when you breakup- know that this is the kind of person to seek out.  [/quote]

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