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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]A few months ago I learned that my DH was bi and had been having a gay affair with a high school buddy for the entire 30 years of our marriage. He also had a few affairs with female coworkers. Because I had no idea he was bi, he carried out the gay affair right in front of my face. They took lots of out of town buddy trips and on and on. I am furious and feel I have had 30 years stolen from me. I am of course divorcing him and after the settlement is safely signed, plan to out him royally. Given his lies and despicable cheating ... does he deserve my silence and protection of his image as a straight man?![/quote] Hi OP : I went through this recently - it's the worst experience. With time it will get better. Moving forward - be judicious about who you tell. This for your benefit and not his. You have to think about the future now and not the past. Again, few people realize what a mind fuck this is. Sorry this happened[/quote]
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