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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]OP Here -- you guys are just awesome... I love all of these comments and suggestions... all valid.  I'm leaning towards leaving this behind as a fun memory.  Too complicated, I am really not the creepy type and he lives far away so what's the point?

Anyway, FWIW, there is a bit more to the story...  I was traveling alone with my kids and they were very distracting -- I was there for us, not to meet guys.  He was traveling solo on his way to a guys camping trip, so he seemed to just want to zone out and enjoy the scenery.  Anyway, my assumption is that he was not married... but he was super cute so my guess is that there must at least be a gf (s).  We're both mid-40s.  I have not dated in a while, so I am a bit out of the flirting game.  Anyway, we didn't even know each others names until the latter part of the day when he introduced himself to me a bit sheepishly... like, we've spent the day having fun and are good friends now and I feel silly that we don't even know each others names.  That said, at the end of the trip, we got separated (tour bus change and seats changed) and then we wound up getting off the bus at different times and suddenly he was gone.  I feel bad I didn't even say goodbye because I was distracted gathering up kids and stuff.  [/quote]

Guy here. If you were with kids, I would assume you were married (unless you specifically mentioned that you weren't?). Maybe he didn't ask for your number because he thought you were married. Also, the "distracted by kid stuff" thing is a new angle - from the original post I thought you guys said "bye" and went your separate ways. So maybe he saw you trying to round up your kids and their stuff and just thought "sheesh I am never going to find a moment to ask the exasperated busy mom for her number".

So I would say, you really have nothing to lose by getting in touch with this guy.

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