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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]As a DH whose wife reacted very negatively when I tried to share fantasies, I can tell you that he will find a way to explore them with or without you.  I would posit that the more vehemently you reject him for his fantasies, the more threatening to your marriage his outlet will be.  The man bared his soul to you and you shut him down and basically told him he is a deviant.

What could possibly go wrong? [/quote]

Another DH who had a very common fantasy shot down by my wife, with a "that's weird" attached.  Rest assured, I stopped sharing fantasies. I found someone online who has the same reciprocal fantasy so it's a safe outlet although the temptation to meet irl is strong.

Op, I don't think you realize how destructive you are being to your relationship[/quote]

Why is SHE being destructive? A man has a fantasy, and if his wife doesn't want to comply, so he finds someone online to satisfy him -- and you think DW is destructive??!
You ought to look at it from a different perspective! [/quote]

Pay no attention to the MRA  trolls.[/quote]

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