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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]Its cool that you waited, but sex is just sex, so just be careful that you don't fantasize it will be some magical experience on your wedding night.  In that case you will be disappointed and your DH will also feel bad.  I would experiment a lot before the big night, coming very close if not all the way, so you don't have overly unrealistic expectations, and so you know a bit more about what you like and don't like.

i totally disagree with the comment about most women not orgasming with vaginal sex.  But, sex is never like it is in the movies-sometimes it works and sometimes it doesn't-and you want to experiment a bit to find what works for you.  The first few times take a bit of practice. Good luck!

PS: don't move in with him before you are married.  i think that's worse than sex before marriage in terms of potentially winding up in a marriage you might have otherwise have opted out of.[/quote]

Amen to this. 
Yes, some of the best sex advice I got was that sometimes it goes wrong (especially in the beginning). When that happens, seriously do your best to not be hurt and whiny. Just talk, say what you want, listen to each other and talk about what you'll do better the next time. It sounds silly but it turned out to work wonders. When I say 'go wrong' I just mean you'll be doing great then someone makes a move that maybe ruins the flow of things--it's very easy for me to go back to square 1 in terms of being turned on.  Then he feels upset that I'm done or whatever. Just talk it through and use your very best classic communication skills, and learn for next time. [/quote]

This sounds very juvenile. I would much rather be married to someone who already knows what they are doing.[/quote]

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