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Reply to "If you are married or in a long-term partnership and you die"
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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]Um, I don't think it's up to me. And how can I be ok with it or not since I'm dead?[/quote] Are you not married/don't have kids? This is one of the things I've discussed with my spouse. It's important once you have kids.[/quote] I'm married and have 2 little kids (and am a [b]stepmother[/b]). I guess I'm just a realist--that is something that is completely beyond my control. But ok, I'll play: I love my husband and want him to be happy. I also trust his judgment. So I'm ok with him dating/marrying again at whatever point he feels he and the kids are ready.[/quote] I think you have a very different bias from first wives, then. Most of us don't trust that another person would be able to put someone else's kids first. You say you have 2 little kids -- are those your step kids? Do you have bio kids with your now husband?[/quote] My 2 little kids are my bio kids and I also have 2 teen stepkids.[/quote]
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