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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]So glad you love her.  But what if your adopted child were ugly or fat - or just didn't hit the gym regularly - what would you do then?  Maybe no kids?  But at least adopting would give the world the chance of ending your gene pool.[/quote]

OP here. Why would I love my child any less if they weren't conventionally attractive?[/quote]

Because you're an asshole, as you have roundly demonstrated.[/quote]
+1  and I am doubtful the OP would seriously love an adopted child as much as his bio child.  It takes a person with a great heart to love an adopted child.   OP is not such a person.[/quote]

I am the PP who wrote a book about how this is a terrible decision financially and emotionally but I have to admit I am troubled by the strange anti-adoption rhetoric some posters here seem to have. A child in need that you bring into your home to love and raise is your child. I think that most people would love a child they raised from childhood very deeply regardless of biological relation. Saying that 'it takes a person with a great heart to love an adopted child' seems to imply that the adopted child is less lovable. This is a very ugly sentiment. There are many families out there who would treasure the opportunity to adopt and to love a child like their own.

I know this is kind of OT (and OP is pursuing this for all the wrong reasons) but a few comments from posters about this have really bothered me. A child is a child whether they come from your womb or not. [/quote]

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