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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]For those of you saying OP shouldn't stay with her parents...it's a hard pill to swallow not to have a reliable mom and dad to help you out. It's something that everyone should have and it suck when you don't. For those of you saying not to escalate, engage, etc., that's easy to say as an armchair quarterback. It is very hurtful to have a parent treat you this way and all situations are emotionally charged. But yes, OP does need to try and de-escalate but it's friggin HARD. Therapy and distance from mom will help. My mother sounds a lot like OPs [/quote] +1 Therapy and set some boundaries with your mom if you decide to be around her or communicate with her in the future. Tell her if she physically or mentally abuses you agin that you will choose not to spend time with her. I have a Batshit cray mom and had to set boundaries, especially as it pertained to my kid, because my mom is sneaky. She was terrified at not being able to see her only grandchild so she got her shit together and respects my boundaries most of the time. When she doesn't, she feels the pain of being cutoff.[/quote]
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