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[quote=Anonymous]I think we all have triggers, if it's not THE actual AP, then it's something that reminds us of them. A kind of car, a certain race, etc. It's tempting to say some snide remark and I think nobody would dis you if you allowed yourself that evil pleasure. However, you don't sound like you want to slap her face into next week, just be AWAY from her orbit. So an option would be to walk tall and proud (even if you're short ha ha) and BE the one with the upper hand. She stole something form you, she is a theif. Yes, WH had part of that, but she has the ugly on her soul, not you. But today you still have the moral high ground. It may not be pleasant ground, but at least you can walk proud as one who is true to yourself (and, btw, your WS). When my second LTR left me for a married guy, I actually prayed for the guy. Not because she was so horrible, but because I felt he needed God's hand to wake up and not be such a destroyer of his own wife's heart. I don't know if it worked, but one thing I have heard is that when you pray for your enemies, God makes their life uncomfortable. God gets to do that, not me. How he does it is beyond me and I don't really care, I just know I can honestly say I asked God to forgive them and have His voice be the loudest one in their heads. [/quote]
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