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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]Did she tell you why she cheated? What was wrong with your marriage? Can you focus on that? Focus on fixing that together. [/quote]

She felt "detached" emotionally. It can't be physical.  I'm in great shape.  I tend to focus on work a lot and kid as well.  Her excuse is neglect of her feelings.  She said I was always shooting down her ideas as stupid or not feasible.[/quote]

This is called "the rationalization hamster" spinning in its wheel.

The bottom line is you were not making her vajayjay wet. Some other guy made it wet. Now she has to go back and rewrite history so that this is all your fault, because otherwise she'd have to conclude she is a bad person who is ruled by her vajayjay.[/quote]

This is crude but gets right to the point. The rationalization, the "working on it," all that makes me smile sadly. In essence, it all comes down to biology. Unlike the PP upstream, I "go there" all the time, iguana brain and all. I truly believe that life will find a way no matter the restrictions society places on it.

I disagree this makes the wife a bad person. I'd rather not assign the good/bad values to what is a natural behavior in humans. This is a sad situation, especially in the light of the fact that a minor child is involved. But don't expect humans to be superhuman. Cool if they are, okay if they're not.

OP, surrender. Whatever you find this means to you. This sucks, but it's not the worst thing in life by far.

--a female[/quote]

Wow - now there is a defense.  I'm sorry your honor I'm can't control my base animal urges and can do whatever I damn well like. I can however use my high level cognitive BS center to attach a rationale,[/quote]

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