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[quote=Anonymous]I know me and my relationship with family; I'd say something. Make sure if you do that you keep the topic not about HIM but about HER feelings for HIM. Give concrete examples. Approach it in a 'maybe I'm reading this wrong and your first impression of him set up my first impression of him but do you actually love him? Cuz it's ok if you don't. Only you know if it's love' kind of way. For what it's worth, when my brother was getting married, we later found out each family member approached him individually with this same talk; we had no issues with the bride, but we just didn't 'get it'. He still married her. They divorced. So know that you can be a mirror to reflect what she's doing/saying... but that she will do what she wants.[/quote]
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