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[quote=mjsmith]OP

in a nutshell
Dated for a year.... wanted out.  found out  girlfriend was preggo.  stayed for another two years (nine months while she was preg and another 15 months after kid was born) when she cheated on you a second time (first time was with bio dad)

So when you left,  kid was maybe 15 months old...  now a year and change later  she wants to get back...

But i would imagine that Bio mom and Bio dad  are holding a royal flush of cards.  the child is not yours.  you and exgirlfreind where not married, you did not adopt the child.  And were happy to break up with her when you found that she cheated on your and the child was not yours.  Now that you found out the child is definitely not yours, you want to  care for the child while the biofather is a great dad... and you want the kid to live a drama free life...

In all honest  I doubt you have any rights.

and in all honesty,  this is one family  you probably don't want to be part of of.  exGF  sounds like a load, love to a be a fly on the wall when you try to explain this to a new girlfriend or potential wife...  "yeah well you see,  I had unprotected sex with this girl,  thought I got her knocked up,  so I stayed,  found out she cheated on me and the kid might not be mine, and I left.  well a few months ago I found out the bio mom wanted to get back together and I found the child really isn't mine,  but I wanted to stay around and confuse the shit out of the 2 year kid with a great bio father and be close to an exgirlfriend.

your girlfriend wont walk, but will run from this train wreck.

you said it yourself  you want the child to have a drama free life....  just walk away...  tell biomom  thanks for the memories  but...the child has a bio father who wants to step up.  Yes it migh tough on you,  but you gotta think about the child...what is best for him....[/quote]

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