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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]Please divorce him. My ex divorced me for precisely the same reasons and it was the best thing that ever happeened to me. I upgraded from [b]a unambitious and selfish SAH[/b] to one of the top docs in the city. [/quote] Not to hijack this thread, but go to hell if you consider SAHs to be unambitious and selfish. Being a stay-at-home parent (and this goes for dads too) is one of the most selfless things you can ever do. [b]Your *entire* day revolves around service to a toddler or infant. You sacrifice career goals because it is in the best interest of the child/family. It is an extremely selfless undertaking, and as is evidenced by this moron, incredibly thankless for 95 percent of the time. But I know this: When my kids are grown, I won't regret FOR ONE MINUTE staying home with them. [/quote] 1) you turned this into a SAHM martyr mommy war thread 2) please, everyone knows that SAH with a kid is far easier than the daycare shuffle most working parents have to slog thru. That's why all the rich moms dont work. If it really was not easier they at least would have hobby jobs and nannies, but even that is more work than SAH. 3) it is kind of hard when you have a baby and are sleep deprived but a toddler? Seriously corral him in a playroom already and crack open a bottle of wine. 4) being the breadwinner sucks. How often do you thank your husband for paying all your bills and allowing you to stay home? 5) you guys need more sex. That will make everyone in a better mood. [/quote]
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