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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]Ok I agree there is something off about this entire conversation. She jumped too quick on the abortion idea. Is making too many excuses about why she is in this situation, and yes, the crime is not worthy of a divorce. [/quote]

What are you talking about? My husband treats me like crap - he's disrespectful, chronically upset about things, dishonest, and now verifiably a cheater. I uprooted my life and put my career on hold to support an opportunity he had in Europe. I'm dependent upon him. This is terrifying. I want to leave him immediately - carrying on a pregnancy alone with a two-year-old while looking for work is untenable.

For people saying it's "just" harmless online flirting and dick pics - please, get over yourselves. He SOUGHT OUT women on Facebook to establish rapport with. He told me he "doesn't know why he needs so much female attention." And this is just what he told me. For all I know he has met up with these women. [/quote]

Obviously he's been cheating on you for some time. You have to get rid of this idiot. I'm thinking now your best bet is to fly home, have the baby there where you have more support and rights.  This relationship is over, he's a scum bag.  [/quote]

Well considering OP says there have been issues since before the first kid was born, I'm betting she's a doormat who just likes to complain and go on and on about how she needs advice.  And then continues to stay with him.  [/quote]

It's one thing to have a husband who's occasionally jerky but does have some redeeming qualities - this is where we were. He's in therapy, I just thought things would continue to improve. Learning about this cheating has completely changed my perception and my willingness to work on/stay in the marriage. [/quote]

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