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[quote=Anonymous]OP, I think your best bet is to hire a HS/college kid to do dishes and maybe some basic meal prep/cooking after school. You can do it when you're home or not (the former would probably be cheaper). I'm generally a big proponent of house cleaning services, but in your case I think the daily help would be better utilized...and since you used to have a cleaner you should have some money in your budget. It won't solve all of your challenges, but I think it would make it easier. It doesn't read to me like either of you is particularly interested in cutting back on your careers, so I don't think that's a good idea in the long run...more likely to breed frustration/resentment than not. I think a little bit of help will go a long way for you, though, so try that out. Also, prep meals on weekends and lower your standards for what a meal is. We eat pretty well from a nutrition perspective, but our meals are much, much simpler than before. And we pretty much eat the same rotation of meals every week. I actually WAH now rather than WOH (which I did until last fall), but I don't really do much w.r.t. household stuff during the day. [/quote]
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