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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]OP here.  We're not talking about an infant, tolddler or even ES age child here.  We have a fully functional teen, yet DW insists on doing everything for her.  She is way too involved in her life and day-to-day life for the child's age and the child is chafing at it.

Added to this is that the be all and end all of everything is the goddamned house.  I pay 1/3 of my salary towards it every month, so you damn right I hate it.  DW puts nothing towards it even though she makes just as much money as me.  DW never wants to do anything fun. She wants to clean the house and have the perfect lawn, which means me doing the work or paying for it.  She is uninteresting.  The only things she talks about are shopping, work and the neighbors.

When I suggest we do things, or she listen to a certain piece of music or read a book she says she "doesn't have time."  No, DW, you will not make time that is the difference and it is destroying your marriage.  
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Um, why aren't you with DW at DD's various events? That's what you are supposed to be doing now. I see a lot of husbands and wives together at the kids event, OP. There's just a little bit more time for that before she flies the coop and then there's plenty of time to sit inside listening to your music.

Are you by any chance the littlest bit special, OP?[/quote]

+1.  Go to the events.  Make some of the same friends.  You can do that and have time to listen to music.[/quote]

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