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[quote=Anonymous]Violation of the marriage contract if you ask me.

I would first like to address this pp.  In my marriage vows we said "for better or worse, sicker or poorer to death due us part"  We did not say anything about unless you gain weight...lol.

Now for the OP:

Your daughter is an adult.  Keep repeating that over and over when you want to say anything.  Yes, you care and you said your peace.  Did it do any good?  Probably not.  Offer to help babysit or clean the house but do not mention her weight anymore.  She knows you think she is fat but you can not do it for her.  My dad quit smoking only when he got cancer.  No matter how much we begged and pleaded he could/would not quit.

My mom nags me about my weight and I know I need to lose it.  But, I don't need her to tell me.  It makes me very angry when she does this, but I can't say anything or she gets mad.  Please if you want a good relationship with your daughter than you will have to stop nagging.  Also, don't bring up so and so was fat and lost so much weight.  My Mom does this and it is not subtle.[/quote]

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