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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]Thank you guys so much. I knew this wasn't normal, husband didn't think it was either, but I was scared maybe it was I and shouldn't worry mom with my overreaction.

First pp, I'm not sure if my son even said no to know if it was respected or not. And now I don't want to keep bringing it up to refresh it in his mind. :/

Do you think I should wait until her husband is home, which is a couple weeks, so as not to give her additional stress?  I don't want to push her over the edge with worry, but I also feel like addressing it now might not make it seem like it's totally the worst thing in the world. [/quote]

I don't think you need to wait. If it was my child, I'd want to know. [/quote]

This!  Please tell the other mother.  We had a little girl come over to our house for a play date a few years ago, who talked my daughter into basically playing striptease while the other one filmed them on an iPad, something like girls gone wild.  I was horrified when I saw it.  We called the other mother.  It turned out the girls older brother's friends had taught a 7 yr old how to do that, and one had been touching her.  Who knows how much longer it would have been going on if we hadn't said anything.  The other mother was very grateful.[/quote]

Our neighbors used to play strip club with the girls on the other side of them from us. There was no molestation involved. There was plenty of activity like this among all the kids in my neighborhood growing up. We had way less supervision than kids today have. I really don't think there's anything wrong with it, and I don't think it's in any way damaging to kids to do this kind of thing with each other.

The problem is when one person is older -- old enough to get sexual gratification from it. That's the issue. Not sexual play among kids.[/quote]

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