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I was surprised how some people who I'd known for 10 years + just dropped off the radar.
I miss my kids and it sucks to hear them talk about the AP.  It's really hard to keep my mouth shut about that. 
I wanted the marriage to work but glad she left now because she really is a POS.
You really don't know someone until you divorce them [/quote]

Why do you miss your kids? Don't you have 50/50 custody, or you mean you have them 50% of the time but you miss them anyway?[/quote]

Yes - 50: 50 and I miss them.  [/quote]

Do not see why the courts and society choose to call it 50/50 split when the standard is every other weekend and Thursday evenings and some time period during the summer. It doesn't work out to be 50% of the time. When I went thought my divorce the judge kept talking about 50% split but the bath doesn't work that way. Also, if its 50% split why am I paying more than 50% of the child expenses. I asked about that and the judge gave me some line about how the custodial parent has the heaver "parenting" responsibility (yes.. I was like WTF) so the non-custodial parent pays more.... which cause me to ask.... well isn't it a 50% split and if so why is the "custodial" parent considered to have more "parenting" responsibility... to which my attorney told me to be quite.[/quote]

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