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Reply to "Coparenting with a difficult parent."
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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]"This, this this. You have to step back on non-custodial days. Don't call unless there is an emergency. Cut out the emotional engagement. Keep it breezy and light and smile. I am serious, even if you hate the guy. It's so, so important to try to foster a good sense when you are doing the transition. Focus on the big picture. Is the child safe? Is the child fed, etc. Otherwise, let it go. As the main custodial parent, yes, it's all on you, but that's fine. Basically put down the rope and keep it moving." I am not quite sure that I understand what you are saying as there are no non custodial day's. My LO has been with me 24 hours a day 7 days a week at the choice of his father deciding that he does not want to be a father any more. [/quote] Are you OP? Because I thought your ex had custodial time with your kid. But yeah, if you are alone and doing it alone then my advice isn't applicable and I don't see how you have any problem beyond making peace that you are doing this all alone. -MAH[/quote]
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