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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]I think all the PPs that are blaming OP for enabling her husband need to stop.  OP is being ABUSED.  She is in an abusive relationship and is starting to realize it.  It is not her fault she is being abused!!!!!!

OP, please please seek out counseling.  I know you said he doesn't yell or hit you but that doesn't mean that this is not abuse, and it doesn't mean that it won't lead to that one day.  Please protect yourself and get out ahead of this thing.[/quote]
I was one of the posters who suggested that earlier.  I'm not blaming her.  It's not her fault her husband is the way he is. I'm just suggesting to her that there ways of putting up boundaries to stop this, and that putting them up is entirely within her reach.  Next time the husband begins with the pants business, she can just make noncommittal noises and do what she likes.  She said the husband isn't violent, never yells, is good in other ways etc.  Over time of being rebuffed, he'll learn she'll do what she wants. [/quote]

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