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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]Yes.  If I could have uncomplicated, no strings attached sex with someone else with no repercussions, I would.

Lately our sex life has been all about my husband's needs.   I'm not at all into what he is, but I'm willing to talk it up to make him happy.  Problem is he doesn't reciprocate.   In the beginning, my kinks got equal air time.  Now though,  even when we're doing things I like, he still frames out in a way where it's all about him. It's a huge turn off.

I've tried to explain this to him, and I went out of my way to do it in a way were he wouldn't feel attacked our blindsided by it and at a time when sex wasn't on the table.   I'll think he gets it, but eventually it's right back to being all about him.   I don't even bother anymore.   If we have sex, that's fine.   If he never asked me for sex again, that'd be fine too.[/quote]

What are your kinks vs. his?[/quote]

I'm a sub.  I was looking for a more dominant partner and at first he fit the bill AND we had a lot of the same hobbies and interests.  Turns out he was really a switch who prefers to bottom, but only with someone he really loves and trusts and knows is in the for the long haul.  Which is great, but it would have been nice to know before we'd been married for years and had kids already.   I don't mind topping occasionally, but he wants me to all the time.  He loves being pegged but I'm not that in to the strap on.  Meanwhile, he hasn't used restraints on me in years and if I'm not topping then it's just straight sex.  I got sick of trying to bring up how my needs aren't being met and trying to get him to change so, we have straight sex   and not as frequently as he likes and more often then I want because the idea of all the bullshit that goes along with it turns me off.

Outside of him being a selfish fuck in the bedroom, he's my best friend, a good husband, and an amazing dad.   We make a great team every where except for when it comes to sex.

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