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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]So essentially no one has any advice save for the mandate to strong arm him like a friggin mob boss into doing as he's told - yeah sounds like the makings of a wonderful loving marriage.

We'll see you in a couple months OP when you're seeking advice about divorce.  Hopefully you'll get better feedback.[/quote]

It's not strong arming him. It's putting him in charge of the birth control. He has 3 choices he can make: condoms, snip or no sex. The choice is his. [/quote]

+1000

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That's swell that this reasoning persuades you, but to OP's husband its going to sound like OP is being an aggressive asshole. Its pretty well established that everyone on this thread disagrees with him, but using arguments that are persuasive only to someone who already shares your view seems like a pretty stupid tactic.[/quote]

Then no sex. [b]Not sure what else you think OP is obligated to do.[/b] Make an appointment for him? Call friends to see if they are snipped and ask them to speak to him? Leave small pro-Vasectomy pamphlets littered around the house? At some point there's a line in the sand.

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Great, you've finally arrived at OP's question, which was "what more can she do?" That's what "deny sex" is an unhelpful response. Its the same thing as saying "I have no advice in response to your question." Why post it at all?[/quote]

So at some point, if all of the perfectly logical arguments that other PPs have presented here are rejected. What do you suggest? Because at some point there comes a time when it is either

1) Woman keeps taking birth control
2) Woman gets pregnant again
3) Woman withholds sex

If a woman REALLY doesn't want to do 1 and 2 what else is she supposed to do? I mean that seriously. Because as I have said a couple more times, I'm assuming OP has attempted cajoling logic already. [/quote]

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