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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]OP here. I don't dislike them - I barely know them. Some came to our wedding as kids (not my idea - they were on MIL's list) - they didn't give a gift, their parents did. So they would essentially be collecting double gifts - from my inlaws and us, even though they/their parents only gave us 1 gift. That seems like an unfair financial burden to us when they themselves never had to spend a penny. And there are a lot of them - it adds up. If I leave it up to DH, nothing will get done. Is it really MY personal responsibility?[/quote] The thing of this gift is more for your MIL/FIL and the extended family. It's not like a gift to a person you met through work and have no contact with now. If the inlaws are giving cash ask to have your names added to the card and give them 30. Or look up the registry and send an thing < 50. Or buy something cheap, but nice, and mail it. [/quote]
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