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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]OP here. Thanks for the responses. Let me clarify, my SIL was directly "mean" to my daughter by not acknowledging her. Whether my daughter understands that or not, it's not right.

Anyway, this is just how I feel on the inside...on the outside, I'm very nice to her and we get along. I'm throwing the baby shower for her. I just don't understand how people can act this way towards a baby. I had fertility issues as well and it was hard watching all my friends get pregnant, but I never ran out crying or not acknowledge the baby. 
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OP you sound a little crazy. Even with what you added she wasn't "mean" to your baby. And running out crying by the SIL also isn't mean. You really need to get a grip. I mean that in a very  non snarky way.[/quote]

[b]Wait, OP is the crazy one?  DCUM, you never cease to amaze with your justifications for bad behavior.  SIL is grieving, yes, but she is out of line[/b].[/quote]

DCUM is out of line suggesting that OPs child is not ACTUALLY the second coming of the messiah, and that not everyone's life will completely stop and revolve around her needs and wants? By telling OP that she could learn some empathy, and reminding her that child is not actually damaged by SILs behaviours?

People like OP need to learn that other people have their own lives, feelings, and are doing the best they can. Kindness goes a long way. SIL did try to see baby, and couldn't handle it. OP isn't trying F all. [/quote]

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