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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]OP I'm sorry you are dealing with this. Your husband is being a selfish asshole. I can't believe he asked to golf on Mothers Day. Its Mothers Day for crying out loud! You should get a break, not him! That alone would send me over the edge.

Having a special needs child is so difficult (I have one) and it sounds like yours has some serious challenges. I agree that he might be doing some of this to tune out and stay in denial about your child with special needs. But maybe he is just a selfish jerk regardless.

So you have a couple of options
1 - accept his selfish behavior and use the extra $$ to get all the therapy you can for your son, and pay for babysitters, house cleaners...whatever you need in order to get a break. Put away money for yourself and start thinking about how you would manage everything on your own.

2 - Insist right now that he commit to going to couples therapy and working on your marriage by making you and his children a priority. And if doesn't then he can kiss your marriage goodbye. Obviously that is a really difficult card to play because you SAH and aren't making any income and would still be the main caregiver of your son.

He is treating you and your children like doormats. He needs a serious wake up call.

This OP, except that I would do option1 while I still work on option 2.

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