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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]OP here. Also wanted to add that another consideration is that I have an own egg daughter already. If I do DE and have another girl I feel like that would be a challenging dynamic--would the DE daughter say that I'm not her real mom and feel negatively toward OE daughter? I feel like the dynamic would be much easier if DE baby was the other gender, though there's a 50% chance it would be a girl. I feel like being adopted would be easier for a child to digest than coming from DE. I wouldn't be so hesitant about DE if I didn't already have an own egg child, but my daughter looks exactly like me and the DE daughter wouldn't.[/quote] You can do gender selection. [/quote] OP here. The clinic I have chosen for DE does not do gender selection. [/quote] Well, then you either don't do gender selection, or you switch clinics. I get the feeling the gender is your main issue with donor eggs. [/quote] OP here. I'm not going to do gender selection at all because I don't want to do PGS testing. [/quote]
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