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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]You think he may abandon his child because he didn't want to be tied down by your medical issues in his 20s?

Wow.[/quote]

OP here. [b]I don't think this at all and I don't know why people keep assuming this.[/b] I clearly identified this as a feeling. I am very carefully to distinguish between thoughts and feelings and would appreciate when others do the same. I am sane and do not plan on interfering with their life. What I am trying to deal with is processing this news. I realize it's such an odd situation it's unlikely anyone else has encountered it but I thought it was worth a try. [/quote]

Because you wrote this...
 wishing he could have been mature enough to step up when I needed him, and also fear that he will abandon this baby like he did me, etc.

...and people took you at your word.[/quote]

That is so out of context it is severely distorted. Hardly taking me at my word.  After expressing that I don't think he would leave his family, I wrote what you quoted after writing that I can't help but have weird feelings that...[what you quoted].

I recognize these feelings aren't rationale, which is why I myself identified it as weird. Above all, it's none of my business what happens and I know that. Doesn't mean that finding out hasn't been tough. [/quote]

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