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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]Nope. I know two things first hand:

1) Marriage is hard and complex and long (Been married 15 years)
2) Divorce is hard and complex and long (having lived through 2 of them as a child.)

I have nothing but sympathy when I hear people are splitting.[/quote]
+1. I feel the same and especially when children are involved.[/quote]

+1. I just feel sad for the kids. 
I used to try to judge who was in the wrong, but I realize even friends might not know all the details of what really went on in a marriage.

My brother got divorced and only a handful of people (my parents, me) know the main reason, that he was being battered by his wife. He was ashamed to tell anyone because he was the guy, guys are not the ones being hit, it was an atypical situation. His wife has issues including self harming and she even beats up her own younger brother (witnessed by my brother) so her immediate family knows this about her. But she acts totally normal and I would have never ever ever guessed it about her.

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