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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]These judging comments hurt. I'm currently divorcing my husband due to his anxiety disorder that was sucking the life out of me.  There was no future in which I could be happy with him.  This isn't something I'll share with people though, it's his private business.  And for that I'll apparently be judged[/quote]

Don't worry. The vast majority of your friends and neighbors are NOT judging you. We love you and want you to be happy. We may love your husband, too, and be sad you are splitting but that does not translate into judgment.

Most adults are mature enough to know what they don't know -- meaning they can never really know what goes on inside a marriage and are in no position to pass judgement.

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You might be judged.  I know people who judge me. But those folks are not my friends, and have no inkling of what my life was like, or the kind of hell my exH put our family through.  I have sole custody of the kids and he gets visitation (his choice), he refuses to pay child support, but if you look on FB, he looks like super-dad.

I know for a fact he bad mouths me and plays the victim.  But I'm ok with it.  I'm happier and healthier, and so are my kids.  We no longer live in chaos or tension. So judge away...[/quote]

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