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[quote=Anonymous]My sister in law lives like this.  They are not poor, but slobs. In fact, they are really well off, I think close to a million a year.  Their house is not in a bad neighborhood though and kids are older now, but when they were younger after a few times my kids went there, I didn't want them going to her place anymore. She never had food, I would find out that kids were left alone, they were much younger then and I was not ok with it.  Even her brother, my DH dislikes going to her place because of how dirty and disorganized it all is. At least your DD's friends family has an excuse, they are poor as you say. I wouldn't assume anything about the older brother and dad, those were unfounded assumptions you made that could be made about kids in wealthy families as well, but you shouldn't assume people are perverts just because they are poor.  I would think that to the friend your DD might be precious as she is willing to play and be her friend when many others avoid her due to her circumstances and that the mom really appreciated you letting your DD come to their place.  Use your judgement but don't judge the girl based on her being poor.[/quote]

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