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Reply to "I am so angry at my husband-- how do you handle silent withdrawal?"
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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]He sounds like a big baby, but why are you continuing to engage him when he is being nonresponsive? Ignore his childish nonsense, it is reinforcing the behavior. He can come find you when he's ready to grow up and talk. [/quote] +1. When you continue to seek him out and force him to talk to you, it reinforces his huge sense of self-importance and his ego. Ignore him as well (unless there's a child issue). [/quote] That's not how PA works, he avoids conflict, avoids discussions, avoids apologizing. He wants you tmfrop the subject and leaves the real issue hanging, OR get angry at him for his immature behavior, whereas he attacks you for being angry and leaves the real issue hanging. The real issue never gets resolved. [/quote]
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