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[quote=Anonymous]Is it possible to say to him -- for example when he goes on his anti canned beans rant -- "Canned beans are fine for me." That's it. Don't tell him off, don't engage with him about soaking the beans or give him some cold edgy diatribe about why you won't comply. Just set your boundary: the beans are fine for you. And change the subject and move on. Let him pick up the obsession/compulsion if that's what he cares to do; let him own the tension in the room. Do not engage; simply tell him what your limits and terms are for YOU.[/quote]
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