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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]Watching RHOBH and Yolanda Foster would absolutely worship David Foster. Granted, he does have a huge ego and God like complex. But I commented on that to my boyfriend and he joked "as she should." Well, I feel like I "worship" my boyfriend. I put his needs before anyones, including mine a lot of the time. I want to pamper/treat/spoil him. I'm ready to completely devote my life to him. If he wanted to move, I'd move with him. I'd make any life choices based on what he wants. Is this what a man wants? Do you think he appreciates it or is scared of it?[/quote]

I've seen this happen many times, and eventually the guy loses all respect for the woman because she is basically a doormat, they break up,and the guy ends up marrying the very next woman he dates, who usually turns out to be opinionated and independent.[/quote]

OP, read this latest post again and again. I am sure I am older than you and this is the history of my life. I married young to a man who adored me. Slowly, as life's stresses happened, he acted like a jerk and I did more and more for him. He eventually lost respect for me and we divorced. If the story ended there, it would be fine. But what happened is I internalized that feeling of rejection and I end up repeating this cycle. One of the crappiest feelings on earth is when you twist yourself into a pretzel for someone and they still reject you. Don't do this to yourself. It comes from a place of low self-esteem and will continue to erode what self-esteem you have. And, by the way, I do think this is true for men too. I've seen men twist themselves for a demanding, rejecting woman and it costs them something. Relationships should be about two people who feel blessed to have each other in their lives and do things for each other. Remember that that's the goal. You can't manipulate someone into loving you and the break-up just hurts more.[/quote]

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