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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]I was in a very similar situation (although the only expiration on the affair was that the AP is a philanderer with decades of affairs).  A few months in I realized that staying/waiting would break me so badly that it wouldn't matter if we reconciled.  [/quote]

How did you move on?  What did you do with your time?  [/quote]

We nested for 6 months, kept the kids in the house and split the week so we weren't in the house at the same time (I wasn't willing to do anything that would risk me getting less than at least 50/50 custody, so I couldn't just move out).  For awhile she was worried about the money so wanted us all to stay in the house even though she didn't want to reconcile and was with someone else.  I said F that and pushed for us to move to two separate homes-which was a really good move.  I started exercise a lot, took a writing class, reconnected with old friends, joined my college alum group, met some new people, did therapy, worked a lot.  After she filed, I started dating.  I didn't want the divorce, but my life is better now.[/quote]

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