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[quote=Anonymous]Let's try this to reason this situation:
Who earns more money?  You or DH?
Who has better health care plan?  You or DH?
Where do both of you have family?
Does he have any other option but to relocate, would he lose his job otherwise?
Have you looked for work in Texas yet?
How many hours is your CH in child care here?  
What is your quality of life here as opposed to what it might be there, better or worse?
If you didn't work for a few months would that be a financial hardship for your family?
Are you older and scared of moving and losing your friends as well?
Have you looked at houses in Texas to see what is in your price range, maybe just on his salary?
Would you lose some retirement money or would it transfer?
Would you like to spend time with your DC and not work?

I think this would be a good start that you have already considered all these for sure, but maybe put it down on paper? Also, is he threatening with a divorce unless you follow him is important question as well.[/quote]

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