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[quote=Anonymous]Um, I'm sorry, not only do they think it, they are correct: verbal outbursts that have you walking on eggshells are a form of abuse.  You know this, and you know you have to leave, or you wouldn't be so sad about the chances of 'being alone' or never having children.

You are pretty clearly putting up with this or staying out of fear of being alone and|or not having children.  This is not a reason to stay with someone.  It is the worst possible set of circumstances to have children.

You're confronting this now because you can't hide the abuse any longer: he's done it in public where others can see (the threat of that is in itself a huge method of control over you).

There are some PPs who say they mellowed and got over their anger issues.  It is possible that your husband might.  Few things will motivate him as much as leaving his ass - maybe just a separation - to actually accept responsibility for his emotional problems and to take some concrete steps to fix them.

This is an absolutely unacceptable environment for you, much less any children.  GTFO now.

signed,

A guy who was in a 4 year relationship with a female abuser who used unhinged behavior (or the threat of it), gaslighting and the threat of violence to keep me under her thumb.[/quote]

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