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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][b]Are you named in the will? Did your parent leave everything to your brother and specifically say that the other siblings were to get nothing or just a small bequest?[/b]

In my family, older relatives have given certain household and personal items to their children before they died so that that there was no confusion after death. Things like jewelry, china, silver, rugs, photos and family papers. My grandparents gave things to their kids ahead of time and that generation is now starting to hand things on to my generation. This way, the older person has the peace of mind of knowing that their belongings are being cared for by those that love them. Is it possible your father gave things to the brother in advance thinking to avoid problems after his death?
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How do I find this out? [/quote]

I and all my siblings  have copies of my parents's wills and important papers that will be needed when they die. They have updated them occasionally over the past few years and we get copies of all updates. Did your father never send you a copy of his will or the trust documents or at least an indication of where they were so you would know what to do when he passed away? 
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No. Left everything in the care of the heinous brother. [/quote]

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