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[quote=Anonymous]Affair veteran here - retired because affairs just aren't worth the hassle.  Here is what will happen if you sleep with him:

1) the sex will be everything you imagine or close enough, that you will fall in love.  Women are really bad at compartmentalizing affairs, so your love for your new man will trump your love for your husband.  If you are really careful, you might not get caught, but since you work with him you probably will because so many witnesses.  Either way, you will end up in love with an unattainable man who will break your hard and put a strain on your job and probably ruin your marriage.

2) the sex will not be that great.  Your bubble will burst.  You will have to navigate extreme awkwardness at work, probably cost your job.  If you are the guilty feeling the guilt will consume you.  You may confess to husband and blow tons on therapy but never get back to where you are now.

The exception to this is if you really are that unicorn woman that can sport fuck and not have feelings, but your post indicates you already have feelings.

Point being - don't do it.  Keep the sexual tension if you can bring it home to hubby.  Your hubby has tons of hot fantasies of other women.  Totally normal.

Oh, and until you meet his wife and she encourages you to sleep with him, he isn't in an open marriage.[/quote]

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