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[quote=Anonymous]OP, you dont need to forgive your father, or reconnect with him. You need to process your trauma. Maybe addressing it in therapy, a letter, whatever, but the point is that its not that you need to see him before he dies, or reconnect, its that something is telling you that its time to fully process the grief and anger over how abusive and--really--unloving he was. Things in your post suggest to me that as a teen you were doing what you could for him to demonstrate that he loved you and cared about you, and all he did, every time, was disappoint. Its unlikely he's going to change now, but it is likely that you are ready to full let this go. Good luck, OP. [/quote]
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