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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]Op here.

It's hard to say about adoption having not met the kids in general though I would be open to that. It's a different situation  but I know I can love a kid that's not biologically mine.

I do want bio kids and he has said he would be open to having more kids depending on the situation .

As for photos I have not been to his house. His kids are there and he does not want to have women spending the night. I respect that. He does have photos of her on his phone with the kids. I'm fine with that. I wouldn't ever want him to feel like he has to hide that or if we stay together the kids couldn't ask about mom.

Not sure when I'll meet the kids, but he does want me to meet his sister who he is close to.[/quote]

A little odd he is wanting you to meet the sister before his kids. After 6 mo I think at least you could meet them (kids) at a restaurant or something and be introduced as a friend.  I think it's admirable he is being careful, it shows character.  So far it sounds good since he's open to having more bio kids.
I don't see any problem with this relationship. If he had a living ex, then I would say move on.  The exes cause more problems then the kids themselves.

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