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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]If my DD grows up to hate me I will know it's my fault not hers. Letting go of toxic people is indeed freeing. My husband and I have been very honest with our child about the reasons and the circumstances of our estrangement from her grandparents. She has every right to expect to live her life filled with people who love her and not only themselves. [/quote] Anybody who uses the term "toxic" regarding people other than themselves has spent too much time on their own feelings and is self absorbed. It's a red flag identifying people who have literally no ability to admit their own deficiencies.[/quote] Same goes for the term "emotionally abusive".[/quote] I wish DCUM wasn't anonymous so I could identify and avoid the defensive people. Attitudes like yours are common among people who like to bully others into accepting the crap you dole out. Offspring aren't captive audiences. You abuse us and we leave. FYI also-- recent studies demonstrate that childhood emotional trauma actually takes longer to cure than physical trauma. Not as long as it takes to cure stupidity though. [/quote]
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