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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]It's a health problem like others imo. No different than any other and if my spouse got sick that last thing I am thinking about is sex. So much more in a relationship, and it sounds like that man will have limited sex in the future if at all; especially with ageing.  
Time to re-evaluate priorities imo. [/quote]

So what happens when one of them gets cancer or something else that effects their sex life. Seriously, get over it....he seems to be doing what he can and you need to accept it.[/quote]

What happens is the couple negotiates some mutually satisfying arrangement to deal with whatever change the cancer brings.

"Get over it"  what does that even mean? A normal person does not "get over" an important marital need like sex drive.
He is NOT doing what he can. You do NOT need to accept it. Insist that he participate in the solution.
He cannot expect you to meet his marital needs while avoiding yours.[/quote]

"mutually satisfying arrangement".  Oh please, grow up. There are all kinds of needs in life, not  all be met or at least at a given time. That's what mature people who are in good marriages get. I feel sorry for the DH in this case.[/quote]

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