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[quote=Anonymous]I have two SILs.  One is my brother's wife, the other is my DH's sister.

My brother's wife is awesome and I adore her.  We are alike in some ways, but not all.  But she's fun, whip smart, and always up for a good time.  She's laid back around my family and goes with the flow. Pretty much your perfect in-law material.

My DH's sister is your typical insecure disaster.  She's in her 40s, supported by his parents, and is mostly concerned with looking perfectly.  She was pretty awful to me when we first started dating, brought up how my DH's ex was her BEST friend and she loved her etc.  I've come to see all her lumps and bumps over the years and I do have an affection for her.  But she is incredibly selfish and I only trust her so far.  We have an easy going superficial relationship now, 10 years in.  This is easier to maintain if I keep my distance a bit.  She is non-stop drama so if I get sucked into the latest crazy, I find myself getting annoyed and frustrated.  If I just keep a surface relationship, we're fine.  [/quote]

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