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[quote=Anonymous]I feel ya girl.  This was me throughout my late 20s - lamenting the ditzy girls that seemed to get the best catches.  I know exactly how you feel (and I don't think you're not a horrible jealous b).

I come from a conservative religion (no alcohol, no premarital sex, etc) and stuck to most of those values through my 20s.  I literally would complain to my guy friends (after making sure I had no chance to date them lol) that I'm a good girl I follow the rules I should get a man... blah blah blah.  At one point I said eff it all, and started to really throw myself into life.  I travelled alone and did things most "good girls" in my community wouldn't dream of.  The other good girls shunned me, and lo and behold that's when I found my husband.  But it's all coincidence!  He happened to have recently ended his marriage, and our paths crossed.  Meanwhile the other "good girls" went on for a couple more years single and then started to break out of their shell, and now they're coupling up too.

People say "relax, it'll happen when you let go!"  In reality, it'll happen whenever it's supposed to happen, and you might as well do whatever the eff you like in the mean time and full enjoy yourself.  [/quote]

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