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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]This is shaping up to be the start of your second divorce.   You can't spend your entire relationship not doing X because  some busy body  might say something.

You can't penalize your husband or yourself for that matter for being married before.

Yes you were married before and it ended. That's the facts.

It's also fact that you have found someone else you would like to share the rest of your life with and if you want the second half of that statement to come true your DH's feelings need to matter more to you than your nosy aunt or gossipy cousins.

So what if most men  don't have ideas for their wedding, your fiance does. This is his first and hopefully only wedding, this is the mark of the start of your lives together. Don't treat it like some dirty side show act that should only be viewed behind a curtain and talked about in hushed tones.

Congrats and good luck![/quote]

OP here, thank you! Thank you! Thank you! This honestly is probably the best advice I've gotten from anyone! Again, thank you. :) [/quote]

NP and I love this too! Your day together is what you want it to be and who cares what other people say about how you "should" celebrate it or not. All happiest wishes to you!

I had a second wedding too, which was my DH's first. It was absolutely lovely and it still fills my heart with joy to think about that day. It was a very festive start to a wonderful marriage and we planned it the way we wanted to.

I don't include my former husband in anything in my life, so why would he have anything to do with how I plan my wedding or marriage?[/quote]

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