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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]so you guys who are on husband's side - why wouldn't you get your passport renewed? what downside is there to having a valid passport?
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LOL, if this is OP, now you are trying to micromanage everyone on DCUM's passport renewals!? My dear, you don't need to know downsides and upsides for every hypothetical situation encountered by every poster who reads this thread. You are in the wrong here. You are making a mountain out of a molehill.

I haven't allowed my passport to expire since I first got one -- I've had to have new pages sewn in at consulates overseas I travel so much (with my DH, who is more into travel than me). I'd never try to force DH or another adult to renew his passport without having an international trip planned. That reeks of controlling behavior to me. Your DH isn't going to be up for a last-minute jaunt to Europe no matter if you find great airfares at the last minute or not -- that is NOT THE TYPE OF MAN YOU MARRIED. You are trying to change your DH's and your life through this one facet, thinking having a passport in-hand will mean exciting travel for you. It won't -- you need to communicate with your DH, plan for the travel you are craving, and [i]then[/i] make the passport (and other necessary prep) happen.

And yeah, just renewed DD's passport and had it expedited -- it took 1.5 weeks door-to-door, and that was with the standard USPS expedite (not going to the passport authority). You're really off base on this one, OP.[/quote]

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